We understand that after the honeymoon phase, it can feel like trying to lead a horse to a spaceship when trying to get your partner in the mood. Relationships are complicated, and busy schedules often get in the way. Plus, there are times when you just want to relax and binge-watch your favorite show without any interruptions.

But if you’ve noticed that the fiery passion in your relationship has turned into more of a gentle ember, there’s probably a reason or eight. Let’s dive into why couples sometimes stop making love and what you can do about it.

1. Busy Schedules and Exhaustion
Life can be a real marathon. Between demanding jobs, family obligations, and social engagements, finding the right moment to get intimate can feel like solving a Rubik’s cube with your eyes closed. When both partners are burnt out, the bedroom often becomes the last place they think of relaxing.

Solution: Prioritize intimacy. It may sound unromantic, but try scheduling it. Think of it as planning a mini-vacation amidst the chaos. Having something to look forward to can make all the difference.

2. Health Issues
Health problems can be sneaky passion thieves. Medical conditions, medications, and even mental health challenges can all affect libido. It’s hard to get in the mood when your body isn’t cooperating.