My Ex Husband’s New Girlfriend Found My Number to Ask Me Just One Question — When I Read Her Text, I Was Stunned

So, a bit of background: My ex and I were married for 13 years, have two kids, and somehow managed to stay best friends after splitting up. We co-parent like pros, even though our marriage had its ups and downs.

Yesterday was our eldest’s birthday, and we all went out for a meal. My ex has been seeing this new woman for about four months. He told me right away because we’re all about keeping things clear for the kids. He asked if she could come to the birthday dinner. I wasn’t thrilled about not meeting her first, but I didn’t want to be intrusive, so I said sure.

The new girlfriend seemed nice, friendly, and genuinely interested in getting along, which was a relief. If she’s going to be around my kids, she better be a good person.

Then things got weird. My eldest handed me a card, which was odd because my birthday was months ago and usually no one remembers. I noticed the girlfriend giving me these looks and decided to mingle with other guests to avoid the awkwardness.

Later, I get a text from an unknown number. It was my ex’s new girlfriend. When I read it, I was STUNNED. She was asking if we could meet for coffee the next day. Her message read:

“Hi, this is Emily, [ex-husband’s name]’s girlfriend. I hope you don’t mind me texting you. I got your number from [ex-husband’s name]. There’s something important I need to talk to you about. Can we meet for coffee tomorrow morning? It’s about the kids and something your ex told me. Thanks!”

I was curious and a little anxious. What could she possibly want to talk about that required a face-to-face meeting? I texted back, agreeing to meet her at a nearby café.

The next morning, I arrived at the café a bit early. Emily walked in right on time, looking a bit nervous. We ordered our drinks and sat down. She took a deep breath and began:

“I know this might be a little awkward, but I wanted to talk to you about something important. [Ex-husband’s name] and I have been getting serious, and I really want to be a positive part of your kids’ lives. Yesterday, I noticed something during the birthday dinner. [Ex-husband’s name] mentioned that you two still celebrate your birthdays together, and I saw the card your eldest gave you. It got me thinking…”
She paused, searching for the right words. “I wanted to ask if you could help me plan a surprise for [ex-husband’s name]’s upcoming birthday. I know it’s a bit unconventional, but I think it would mean a lot to him, and it would show the kids that we can all get along and be happy for each other. What do you think?”
I was taken aback. Her request was unexpected, but it showed genuine care and a desire to integrate smoothly into our blended family dynamic. I took a moment to process it before responding.

“Emily, I have to admit, I wasn’t sure what to expect when you texted me. But your idea is thoughtful and kind. I’d be happy to help you plan something special for his birthday. It’s important for the kids to see us all getting along.”

Relief washed over her face, and we spent the next hour discussing ideas and planning the surprise. By the end of our meeting, I felt a sense of camaraderie with Emily. She truly wanted to be a positive influence in our kids’ lives and was making an effort to include me in important decisions.

When [ex-husband’s name]’s birthday arrived, the surprise party went off without a hitch. He was genuinely touched by the effort we all put in, and it brought a new sense of harmony to our extended family.

Looking back, I realized that sometimes, unexpected questions and strange circumstances can lead to positive outcomes. Emily’s bold move to reach out to me not only helped bridge any initial awkwardness but also laid the foundation for a healthier, happier co-parenting relationship moving forward.

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